I decided not to dwell on my shortcomings on my 29th-ish birthday. Instead I decided not to dwell at all and just be. I worked all day. Boss man sent me a pizza for lunch, went to eat (and drink) with bestie and got to get a pig who I’ve named the Great Hambino because I can’t remember her real name. All in all it was a pretty decent day with little to no self loathing or self pity. And now I sleep.