• The Best Laid Plans

    The Best Laid Plans

    I have 49 blogs sitting in my drafts. I’ve said since the beginning of the year (and every year before) that I was going to be more intentional with posting regularly. I told myself (and my consistency crew) that I was going to post a blog a day, starting Monday, even if it was just… Read more

  • Why Do I Show Up Everyday?

    Why Do I Show Up Everyday?

    They say that everyone has a big “WHY” when they decide to change something in their life. I’ve been thinking alot about mine.  When I was 15, my mom was in a car accident that left her in a coma for months. I’ll never forget that morning. I woke up and went to school. My… Read more

  • Who are You Spending Your Time With This Year?

    Who are You Spending Your Time With This Year?

    Happy First Monday of the New Year! It’s almost hard to believe that we have crossed another year off our calendars. I know that so many people have so many negative feelings about the way last year went and I have to say, I’m not experiencing that at all. While I did suffer a few… Read more

  • What Tools Are You Taking Into the New Year?

    What Tools Are You Taking Into the New Year?

    Twenty-twenty and beyond has been a time of lessons and self-discovery for me. The last of my three children moved out making me an “official” empty nester. I fell in love. I quit drinking. I started working on my weight problem and my food addictions, but more importantly, I started working on my mindset and… Read more

  • If You Don’t Like Where You Are, Change It.

    If You Don’t Like Where You Are, Change It.

    We’ve been living at the beach for 9ish months. And while I LOVE living here, I love being close to the water, I love going out on Fridays and walking on the marshwalk or by the ocean, but I don’t love the pay. I knew the cost of living would be higher here. I mean,… Read more

  • It’s OK to Block Toxic Family Members

    It’s OK to Block Toxic Family Members

    I just got finished telling my sister to go fuck off. And I gotta say, I’m not sure I’ve ever felt anything more rewarding. Don’t get me wrong, I love my sister. And we never argue really. I hate confrontation. And my whole life I have been a meek little mouse keeping the peace. And… Read more