• My Dirty Little Secret

    Not many people in my circle know that I suffer from anxiety. And those that do, probably doubt me. I’ve learned to hide it well over the years and even to deal with it and accept it.  And maybe mine is different from most or I treat it differently, I don’t really know. I think… Read more

  • The Douchebag’s Guide to Pick Up Lines

    I often wonder if there is some sort of guidebook that single men are looking at in the doctor’s office or while getting their oil changed or if it is just casual barber shop conversation that gives them all the brilliant idea to use a universal line when a woman makes a statement. If you’ve… Read more

  • Stripper Blindness

    My fun little group of friends in North Carolina has been battling pink eye between the bunch of them. The kids have gotten it. The moms have gotten it. And every time they mention it, I always chuckle. Not because I think pink eye is funny, but because the last time I had pink eye,… Read more

  • They Never Understand Why They are Exes

    I have an ex boyfriend that I broke up with quite a few years ago. We remained in contact over the 5 years or so that we haven’t been together. I guess  I would say we are friends, and we talk fairly regularly. When we were together, I totally and completely loved this guy. He was… Read more

  • The Drawing Board

    I’m not a fan of the drawing board. Or square one. I don’t like going back to these places, though it seems they are my permanent residences when it comes to love and dating. I haven’t heard from TK the DJ since our little adventure to Asheville a week ago. I mean I sent him… Read more

  • Mister, Mister, Mister 

    It dawned on me earlier as I was writing about my unboyfriend that I hadn’t mentioned Mister, the married one, lately. Mostly because he’s a non-issue and I finally laid the whole situation to rest. To make a rather long story short, I ended up telling him (again) that he needed to deal with his… Read more