• 5 Days and Counting

    5 Days and Counting

    FMG and I are on day 3 (4 by time this posts) of co-habitating and day 5 of his sobriety. And I must say, I am pleasantly surprised at how well things have been going. Not that I expected it to be miserable, but it was pretty tense the month before he got here. But… Read more

  • Super Needy Underwriters

    Super Needy Underwriters

    I’ve been living in my house for five-ish years. I’ve been renting. When I first moved in, I was leasing to purchase and was supposed to buy it after a year or two (I don’t remember). But I am a “job” hopper and I never really stay anywhere very long if I’m not happy. And… Read more

  • Two Camps of Relationships

    Two Camps of Relationships

    And I did exactly what I told myself I wasn’t going to do. I sent FMG a text. I won’t pretend that maybe it wasn’t a terribly stupid idea. But I also can’t pretend that I don’t love him and think maybe he’s my one. I helped him get the rest of his stuff out… Read more

  • Being Human

    Being Human

    I didn’t talk to Flea Market Guy all weekend. Not since I pulled up to his place Friday evening and saw his ex girlfriend in the passenger seat of his truck. She was “helping him move.” He had to put his stuff in storage because the alcohol had caused him to lose his motivation for… Read more

  • Let Her Fly

    Let Her Fly

    When the next girl comes along, I hope you make her feel like she matters.  I hope you remember all the things that you like about her and tell her often.  When the next girl comes along, I hope when she looks at you like you would never do her wrong, that you choose every… Read more

  • A long drive

    A long drive

    I filled my tank up with gas not planning on going anywhere, but as luck would have it, I apparently got the gas with the water in it or something because my car immediately started hesitating. I went to Auto Zone and grabbed some gas treatment and added it to my car. Then I decided… Read more