• My Perfect Guy- the (mythical) checklist

    My Perfect Guy- the (mythical) checklist

    I was talking to my friend, Maranda today about my blog- binge readers and niches and whatnot. Sometimes I can tell when someone binge reads. Mostly I can just see a spike in the number of views and then it will show me a list of which blogs have been read. When I go down… Read more

  • Honky Tonkin’

    Honky Tonkin’

    Sure, a tattooed ass crack is not what you want to see on a Sunday afternoon. And yet, here we are. I went out to a country bar Friday night and for a little bit last night. Friday night, I drank too much and stayed until they closed. They closed before 2am because the crowd… Read more

  • Being a Free Spirit

    Being a Free Spirit

    I stopped by my favorite Jamaican food spot today. I’m not sure if it’s the only one in town, but it’s definitely the only one I go to. Favorite restaurants and favorite bars have a way of turning into relationships. Like the one you have with your hairstylist. If you visit regularly, small talk turns… Read more

  • Living Donor

    I was scrolling through Facebook today and I saw a picture of a lady looking for a kidney. From what I could tell, she’s been looking for a while. She’s local. There was a number to call to see about donating. I don’t know why I would want to give a kidney to a stranger,… Read more

  • Is the Road to Mindfulness Paved with Sex? ***

    Is the Road to Mindfulness Paved with Sex? ***

    Reminder Note: the asterisks (***) means there will be sex talk. This is just a little reminder for my children that if they don’t want to read about mom’s sex life or her vagina, to skip this post. But it’s a universally useful rule for the rest of the world too. I drove by Unboyfriend’s… Read more

  • I Have No Niche

    I Have No Niche

    I’ve been blogging for a few years now. Not every day, but most days when I’m in my happy place. And I follow lots of other people’s blogs and I see them monetizing them or getting tons of likes and shares. And I’d like to be riding that train with them. But as it turns… Read more