• Body Shaming for Sex

    Body Shaming for Sex

    If you’re on my Facebook page, then you probably already know the story of the guy who propositioned me for sex on Plenty of Fish and when I politely declined, he proceeded to tell me that he would have been doing me a favor by fucking me because he doesn’t usually have sex with “bigger… Read more

  • So You Want to Write a Blog?

    So You Want to Write a Blog?

    It seems like everyone and their kid wants to write a blog these days and nobody knows where to start and what the rules are. For some reason, people think blogging is different than life when it comes to starting it. But the truth is, there are no rules. You just have to take the… Read more

  • If I had a Dollar for all the pic(kles?)…

    If I had a Dollar for all the pic(kles?)…

    So all that worrying and panicking and putting in twenty applications over the weekend led to 4 calls for interviews today. But my first pick job was a cafe job that was Monday through Friday. I put it out into the universe that if I had to work a regular job I thought I wouldn’t… Read more

  • There’s Always a Solution to Every Problem

    There’s Always a Solution to Every Problem

    Well, I said I was going to get out of my funk today. And I guess for the most part I have. I meditated for no less than three hours today. I started to mow the backyard, but the rain had other plans. So I stopped and went and sat by the river and meditated… Read more

  • The Job Search That’s Going to Send Me Spiraling

    The Job Search That’s Going to Send Me Spiraling

    I haven’t had to actively look for a job in over 3 or 4 years. All the jobs I’ve had, people have recruited me for. And even before that. I always get offered jobs when I’m working at some other job. I think it’s probably because there’s not really a job that I’m not good… Read more

  • I’m the Perfect Distraction

    I’m the Perfect Distraction

    I finally spoke to Alejandro last night after not hearing from him for 24 hours after he told me that he was going to have dinner with his ex. Needless to say, I already knew the outcome. Not because I’m psychic (even though I am at times) but because I’ve danced this dance before. As… Read more